Clara's spread and reading
(Love Lines)
Corina's introduction:
We have been together since half a year. I fell good with my boyfriend but we do not talk too much about future. I’m a little bit afraid to talk about marriage, wedding and whatever because I fell insecure. At the same time I hope he will live with me. His parents like me but I don’t fell it’s an advantage for me.
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Dear Corina,
This spread shows for both of you what things and happenings move you towards the marriage and what are the hints of this development. So you can see what you can do to fulfil your wish.
From your part the hints are some mental or physical illness healed by another man. This makes you insecure and this is what keeps you in a distance to your friend. Your future husband has been very happy with you but now he feel disappointed because of this healer. His companions – I do not mean his family or relatives – have also an influence on him.
You are moved towards marriage by a change in your mind makes you possible to see the freedom of being in the bound of the marriage instead of the prison of loneliness. There are only a few who are able to make this insight, who are aware of the possibilities opened by a happy relationship.
Your friend’s vanity has been hurt so he has been upset and blue. You have to feel sympathetic with him, you have to trust him. If you do so he will understand that his sadness is caused by a misunderstanding what is easily cleared. If he can solve his difficulties with your help it makes him more committed and involved.
The most important thing you can do for enrich your relationship to make your love deeper is to communicate more, to discuss with your boyfriend the same things you discuss with your healer who knows about that certain illness your friend doesn’t know.
If you point out this problems, if he learns your feelings and anxieties he won’t feel threatened anymore but he will feel like a saver, like a knight, like someone arriving home.
This will make him secure and you can turn together towards a bright and joyful future.
Clara
Dear Clara,
I’m very grateful for your help. You made me brave enough to tell my friend what hurts me, what makes me worried about our common future. In return it turned out he is jealous because I go to often to my gynaecologist. He thought probably I have another lover and he causes me the troubles. Then I explained him my cyst has been treated with a new method to avoid danger of infertility. He was very happy to accompany me to the next date. Driving home he told me about his earlier lover who cheated him. He was very down and his friend helped him a lot. When I appeared on the scene the reminded him to be very open-eyed and not to be deep involved again. He has been trying to listen to his friends but it has been very hard for him because he is really in love with me. He felt confused because I didn’t talk about my problem, I didn’t talk about my gynaecologist but when he got acquainted with him when he learned the details of my problem he turned very happy. He understood I want to keep my fertility because I want to marry him and have kids.
Now we are thinking about marriage, wedding, celebration and of course about you because we are both very thankful.
With best regards,
Corina