Kate's spread and reading
(Favorite Spread of Rosie Spindle)
Julie's introduction:
I’m 34. This is the age I have to start thinking about family and children. I wonder whether my recent boyfriend will be future husband, father of my children and head of our family. His name is Peter. We have been together since one and a half years. He is reliable. As far as I can judge he would be happy with a baby. He loves me but I feel still insecure.
Spread: Rosie Spindle
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Dear Julie,
This spread shows you your recent situation. I think the most important thing is to know why you feel insecure. The Gipsy cards say you are first of all insecure because you do not really trust in the future of your relationship with Peter. You are afraid to become a competitor that another woman appears on the scene while your body is deformed by the pregnancy and the birth. You are also afraid of the situation being home with a little baby. On one hand it threatens you not to owe your own body to let is serve by another being but of course this is not conscious for you. The three cards on the left side down show that the anxiety usually appears during the pregnancy is already present in your mind. It would be worth to ask your mother about the circumstances of your birth, about your early childhood whether you have some bad experiences in connection with little babies you do not remember. I guess something like that influences your feeling.
It is Peter’s personality what drives you towards having a baby how anxious you ever are about it. The Gipsy cards say he is really reliable, he would be happy to marry you and he will stay with you whatever happens. The cards on the right down show that you see all this but this is only the one side of the coin. If you would go on living like this two lonely people would live together in the future. Peter has to become more then a reliable partner, he has to become an erotic, wishful man is your eyes if you start to see him like this, if you start to “pamper” him like a baby, to admire him like a man, to joy him as a lover then your bounds will be strong enough and you will trust him and your common future.
With love,
Kate
Dear Kate,
Almost a year has passed since you told me things I am very grateful about. It was a busy year, we had a very well organised and beautiful celebrated wedding and we are waiting in love for our little boy due to be born ins two month. He is very happy inside but I’m sure he will be very happy when he will catch sight of his father. I hope Peter will be the first out little son sees in this world because we shall be together in the delivery room. You advised me to ask my mother about my early childhood but she did not answer honestly. So I asked my godmother and she admitted I was two when my mother lost my little brother soon after giving birth to him. So that is the reason she always avoided the subject of having little brother or sister, the subject of birth and pregnancy. That is the reason she is still worried whenever she looks at me and my “deformed” body. Peter tries to make her confident by showing 3D pictures about our little baby having the same nose as his grandma.
Thanks a lot to you,
Julie